Sample dating game questions
This is also a good one, we all deal with stress differently, some exercise, some meditate, some hold it inside until they erupt. What is your favorite way of spending time with me? If they admit they would drive buzzed, you don’t want to ride with them. Camping with family, summer camp, swimming at the Y tells you a little a bit about the way they grew up.
Drugs, alcohol, gambling, and well you get the idea. What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality? You shouldn’t drink and drive so the next question is will you do it again? If you have been on a date or two and they start talking marriage, that is fast and you may wish to slow that down. What did you do during the summers when you were growing up? This will tell you if they see everything as a competition they need to win 51. This tells you if they prefer lots of people or alone time with you.
Our advice if it’s the latter, break it off and don’t look back. This could tell you if they are greedy, to giving, or a moderate who will save some, use some, and give some.
This is going to tell you if they made a mistake once or they continually break the law. Is this something that they find embarrassing or just bad etiquette? If you won the lottery, what would you do with your money? This may not be drugs or alcohol or gambling either, there are many forms of addiction.
Would you be willing to go in for testing again before we get more involved? You will get an idea of if they are religious or not. If they say that ask for the happiest moment of life before that.
This is going to allow you to know how important their family is to them. This can show you how they treat their friends and people that they care about. Think of the song “Live like you were dying” if you don’t know the song, look up the lyrics, it’s actually quite meaningful. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat? Call it Karma or the golden rule, the question is do they believe that you reap what you sew? Are they actively looking for love or is it a situation where life is good where I am right now but if love were to come along, I’m ready for it type thing. Things involving family and very close friends, effect people differently and leave certain issues with them emotionally, mentally, and on their soul. If we were to have kids what faith would you wish them to be raised in yours or mine (if you come from different faiths)?
This will give you an idea of what kind of relationship they have with siblings if they have any. At that point, you might want to ask why, as they may not see the way others do. If you don’t want to have drama in your life or relationship then you need to discuss ways to avoid it and not create it if it is a factor. Are you a priority or is it their job first, their friends, fun, and then you. This will be insightful, do they see beauty as an outward or inward beauty or a combination of both and in which way. How would you handle one or the other of us being offered a dream job but having to move in order to take it?
This is going to let you in on what they dislike about themselves. This also allows you to know how serious the other is about their faith. Do you have a lot of drama or negativity in your life? This may seem like we have already covered it and in a roundabout way maybe we have, but this point blank sets the stages to see just where their priorities lay and this is important.
This is a good one; do they live in the real world or spend it on social media on the computer?
Do they have a passion for reading, or was it in high school? How much time do you spend on social networking in a week?